Respect and love
When you love someone you respect him or her for the person that they are, not the person that you want them to be.
You can only love someone fully if you respect him or her.
Without respect, love is not even in question.
Respect contributes to the person that you are and your abilities to love the other person.
尊敬与爱
爱一个人，就要尊敬他，原原本本地尊重他，而不是以自己好恶而为之。
有了尊敬，才可能真正爱一个人;
没有尊敬，爱甚至都无从谈起。
尊敬有益于自己本身，有助于自己爱别人之能力。